Praise be to Allah.
What your friend has told you is true. Many ahaadeeth were reported from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) which forbid isbaal (wearing ones clothes below the ankles), for example:
Al-Bukhaari reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "Whatever of the izaar (lower garment) is below the ankles is in the Fire." (al-Bukhaari, no. 5787)
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "There are three whom Allaah will not look at or praise on the Day of Judgement and theirs will be a painful punishment: the one who wears his garment below his ankles, the one who reminds others of his favours, and the one who sells his product by means of making false oaths" (reported by Muslim, no. 106)
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "Isbaal (wearing ones garment below the ankles) may apply to the izaar (lower garment), the shirt or the turban. Whoever allows any part of these to trail on the ground out of arrogance, Allaah will not look at him on the Day of Judgement." (reported by Abu Dawud, no. 4085, and al-Nisaai, no. 5334, with a saheeh isnaad).
Ibn Abbaas reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "Allaah will not look at the one who wears his lower garment below his ankles." (Reported by al-Nisaai in al-Mujtabaa, Kitaab al-Zeenah, Baab Isbaal al-Izaar).
Hudhayfah said: "The Messenger of Allaah
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
him) took hold of the muscle of my calf (or his calf) and said, This is where the izaar should
stop; if you insist, it may be lower, but it should not reach the ankles." (Reported by al-Tirmidhi, who
said this is a saheeh hasan hadeeth; see Sunan al-Tirmidhi, no. 1783)
All of the ahaadeeth quoted above speak against isbaal, whether or not the intention is to show
off; but if a person does this deliberately out of arrogance, there is no doubt that his sin is
greater. The Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "Allaah will not
look at the one who trails his izaar on the ground out of pride." (al-Bukhaari, no. 5788)
Jaabir ibn Sulaym said: "The Messenger of Allaah
(peace and blessings of Allaah be
upon him) said to me: Beware of wearing ones lower garment below the ankles, because this is
a kind of showing-off, and Allaah does not love showing-off." (Regarded as saheeh by al-Tirmidhi,
no. 2722).
No one is able to be completely free of pride and arrogance, even if he claims that this is so.
Such a claim is unacceptable, because by saying it, he is praising himself. Only in the case of
those whom the wahy (revelation) testified that they were free of pride do we believe that this is
the case. For example, there is a hadeeth which states that the Prophet
(peace and
blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "Whoever trails his garment on the ground out of pride,
Allaah will not look at him on the Day of Resurrection." Abu Bakr said to him, "O Messenger
of Allaah, my izaar slips down if I do not pay attention to it." He said: "You are not one of
those who do it out of pride." (Reported by al-Bukhaari, no. 5784)
What indicates that isbaal is prohibited even if it is not done out of pride is the hadeeth of Abu
Saeed al-Khudri, may Allaah be pleased with him, who said: "The Messenger of Allaah
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: The lower garment of the Muslim should
come down to mid-calf, but there is nothing wrong if it is between that point and the ankles.
Whatever is lower than the ankles is in the Fire. Whoever trails his garment on the ground out of
pride, Allaah will not look at him." (Reported by Abu Dawud, no. 4093, with a saheeh isnaad.)
These ahaadeeth describe two different deeds, for which there will be two different
punishments:
Imaam Ahmad reported that Abd al-Rahmaan ibn Yaqoob said: "I asked Abu Saeed: Did
you hear anything from the Messenger of Allaah
(peace and blessings of Allaah be
upon him) concerning the izaar (lower garment)? he said, Yes, listen! The izaar of the
believer should come to mid-calf, although there is nothing wrong if it comes between there and
the ankles, but whatever is lower than the ankles is in the Fire, and he said it three times."
Ibn Umar said: "I passed by the Messenger of Allaah
(peace and blessings of Allaah
be upon him), and my izaar had slipped down. He said, O Abdullaah, pull up your izaar! so
I pulled it up. He said, More! so I pulled it up more, and always made sure it was pulled up
properly after that." Some people asked, "To where did you pull it up?" He said, "To mid-calf
length." (Reported by Muslim, no. 2086; al-Dhahabi, Kitaab al-Kabaair, 131-132)
The issue of isbaal applies to women just as much as it applies to men. This is indicated by the
hadeeth of Ibn Umar, may Allaah be pleased with him, who said: "The Messenger of Allaah
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: Whoever trails his garment on the
ground out of pride, Allaah will not look at him. Umm Salamah said: O Messenger of Allaah,
what should women do with their hems? He said, Let them go down a handspan. She asked,
What if their feet show? He said, Let them lengthen it by a cubit, but no more." (al-Nisaa'i,
Kitaab al-zeenah, Baab dhuyool al-nisaa).
The punishment for showing off may come to pass in this world, not in the Hereafter. Abu
Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allaah
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
him) said: "Whilst a man was walking arrogantly admiring himself and his clothes, Allaah
caused the earth to swallow him and he is suffering in it until the Day of Resurrection." (Reported
by Muslim, no. 2088).
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